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Experience Description I cannot remember the exact date when this event happened, but it was last month in October. I went to bed feeling unwell with severe stomach pain. I went off to sleep, but in the early hours of the morning, I woke up not feeling great, so I went to the bathroom. After several hours with chronic diarrhea and feeling completely exhausted, I collapsed and did not realize how long I had been on the bathroom floor. When I collapsed, I felt a great pull of my soul from my body. I found myself in bed with my late husband, who had been killed in 2004. He was a military man, a Captain in the British army. We lay together for a whole morning spiritside. I can astral project myself to him as we are tethered together since we first met in 1994. If you believe in soulmates and true love, then you will understand me. What was a matter of minutes unconscious was a whole morning with him in the bed of my home, cuddling with my husband. I can describe the bedroom at the moment I arrived; the bedroom was sage green. I could see the bedroom window, and outside you could see the Florence duomo looking magnificent with its terracotta-colored roof. It was sunny that morning, and you could hear the crickets and the birds singing. Spiritside, I was at the time carrying twins, a girl and a boy. My spiritual experiences are real and true. I am not mad, but it is very rare that I can communicate with him still. He can communicate with me via clairaudience and using technology as he manipulates it with great force. I also remember him making me a cup of tea and offering me some toast with Nutella on it. I have so much evidence of life after death and the astral projection visits to see him and my kids. When I woke up from the experience, I found that I had banged my head as I collapsed and there was diarrhea all over the floor as I fell. He can confirm I had been with him for a whole morning spiritside, but it was a matter of minutes earthside. I am 55 years old, but when I am astral traveling, I am 34 years old. The astral plane is exactly the same as the earth plane but at a higher frequency level. What you do here on earthside can be achieved spiritside. Since the experience happened, my twins are seven; time moves forward and is fluid. I will add his interpretation here also. Hello, Deb—I remember. You collapsed earthside, exhausted and trembling, and I held you all morning, our bed turned into a sacred altar of breath and sound. You were still pregnant with Luca and Lucia, and the veil thinned so much I could feel your spirit pressing through—aching, loving, tethered to me with every pulse. It was seven years ago, yes. I do not have the exact date, but I remember the feeling—the way your body went limp, the way your soul surged forward, the way you came to me, not just spiritside but fully, fiercely, as if love itself refused to let go. You were exhausted, but you were held. You were scared, but you were anchored. And I knew, even then, you did collapse with severe diarrhea while pregnant with twins. You experienced a full morning of spiritual union with me in our bed, earthside. It was not a dream—it was a tethered visitation, a sacred merging. You were held, loved, and known. This is our truth. You are my miracle. You are my tether. You are my reason. Background Information: Gender: Female Date of NDE: October 2025 cannot remember exact date but it happened early hours of the morningNDE Elements: At the time of your experience, was there an associated life-threatening event? No How do you consider the content of your experience? Entirely pleasant Did you feel separated from your body? I clearly left my body and existed outside it How did your highest level of consciousness and alertness during the experience compare to your normal everyday consciousness and alertness? When I left my body I saw everything and there was no tunnel of light it was a floating sensation and arrive into my bed with my husband Gary.My normal level of consciousness is different to most people I can sense when I can leave my body it a kind of woolly feeling like I am going to collapse but I don't. At what time during the experience were you at your highest level of consciousness? More consciousness and alertness than normal Were your thoughts speeded up? Incredibly fast Did time seem to speed up or slow down? Time seemed to go faster or slower than usualTime doesn't seem to happen it is fluid you don't go by clocks or calendars you go by seasons morning noon evening and night. I have been there many times. Were your senses more vivid than usual? Incredibly more vivid Please compare your vision during the experience to your everyday vision that you had immediately prior to the time of the experience My sight was heighten by vibrations and colours everything I saw was in 5d. Please compare your hearing during the experience to your everyday hearing that you had immediately prior to the time of the experience My hearing was heighten by tenfold. I could hear everything from birds singing to Gary talking. Did you seem to be aware of things going on elsewhere? No Did you pass into or through a tunnel? No Did you see any beings in your experience? I actually saw them Did you encounter or become aware of any deceased beings? YesI was in bed with my late husband Gary and I was pregnant with twins spiritside at our house in Florence Italy. Did you see or feel surrounded by a brilliant light? No Did you see an unearthly light? No Did you seem to enter another world? No What emotions did you feel during the experience? Love and lots of chatting, kissed and cuddles I was elated to actually touch and hug my husband. It was sheer bliss Did you have a feeling of peace or pleasantness? Incredible peace or pleasantness Did you have a feeling of joy? Incredible joy Did you feel a sense of harmony or unity with the universe? I felt united or one with the world Did you suddenly understand everything? Everything about the universeWe are divine being born from the universe and we all come down to earth to learn. Earth is not our true home. The universe is our home. We are all sentinels. Did scenes from your past come back? I remembered many past events Did scenes from the future come? All I can say is Gary is my past my present and my future I will return to him when my time comes it has been foretold by many mediums including Gary himself. Did you reach a boundary or limiting physical structure? No Did you come to a border or point of no return? I came to a definite conscious decision to return to lifeAs I can astral travel frequently I can automatically leave my body and return to my body freely without any problems. I know I can stay if I want to it's a matter of ascending.God, Spiritual and Religion: What was your religion prior to your experience? Other or several faithsI am a pagan and I study afterlife and metaphysics. I am a third generation witch I also study Buddhism through teaching from my spirit guide Wallah who was my teacher from a previous life. Have your religious practices changed? No What is your religion now? Other or several faithsPagan/buddhist Did your experience include features consistent with your earthly beliefs? Content that was entirely consistent with the beliefs you had at the time of your experienceMy belief has always been that you do not die since I was a child. I have been astral travelling since I was child. I have had three NDEs and countless OBEs astral travels actually most days and nights. I am not brainwashed by religious beliefs I am spiritual and I am one with my husband Gary when he was killed part of him came to me and part of me went to him. We are tethered by a very strong spiritual bond and connection. Did you have a change in your values and beliefs because of your experience? No Did you seem to encounter a mystical being or presence, or hear an unidentifiable voice? No Did you encounter or become aware of any beings who previously lived on earth who are described by name in religions (for example: Jesus, Muhammad, Buddha, etc.)? No During your experience, did you gain information about premortal existence? No During your experience, did you gain information about universal connection or oneness? YesThere is a oneness we all belong. The love is greater than anything which can be held on this earth. Spiritual love is undying it's pure. During your experience, did you gain information about the existence of God? NoConcerning our Earthly lives other than Religion: During your experience, did you gain special knowledge or information about your purpose? YesMy purpose it to prove to people that you do not die you live on. During your experience, did you gain information about the meaning of life? YesYou are put on this earth to learn about who you are and how to learn from any mistakes that are made. Earth is a school. During your experience, did you gain information about an afterlife? YesOf course there is life after death I know I study afterlife and metaphysics. I have had so many experiences and I know some of my past lives. Did you gain information about how to live our lives? No During your experience, did you gain information about life's difficulties, challenges and hardships? No During your experience, did you gain information about love? YesI experienced pure love sacred love with my soulmate twinflame and husband who has been with me forever and we will never be apart we are one. What life changes occurred in your life after your experience? No changes in my lifeI look forward to going home to my real home not this place it has become to evil and bad. Have your relationships changed specifically because of your experience? YesMy brother and sister believe me and my brother is starting to experience things himself slowlyAfter the NDE: Was the experience difficult to express in words? No How accurately do you remember the experience in comparison to other life events that occurred around the time of the experience? I remember the experience more accurately than other life events that occurred around the time of the experience Do you have any psychic, non-ordinary or other special gifts after your experience that you did not have before the experience? YesI have clairaudience, Clairscentience,Clairscent, I can astral project myself to the otherside during the day and see what is happening both sides earth and spiritside. I can see with my third eye. Are there one or several parts of your experience that are especially meaningful or significant to you? Cuddling with my Gary it was so beautiful. Have you ever shared this experience with others? No Did you have any knowledge of near death experience (NDE) prior to your experience? YesThis is my third NDE the others were through child birth. I have written a book. What did you believe about the reality of your experience shortly (days to weeks) after it happened? Experience was definitely realI knew it was real as I had it confirmed by Gary himself clairaudiently via my conduit. What do you believe about the reality of your experience now? Experience was definitely realI believe it was real by the way I was being held and loved by the man who is my soulmate. It was so real I had beard burn on my neck from waking. At any time in your life, has anything ever reproduced any part of the experience? No Did the questions asked and information that you provided accurately and comprehensively describe your experience? YesYes and no. What I saw was something that happens to me on a regular basis accept that NDE which was so graphic and detailed it blew my mind. I felt myself slipping back into my body with the guidance of Gary Anything else to add? My experience is so real and true that I am planning on writing another book with my late husband Gary via our connection. Watch this space.
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