Cathleen C's NDE

EXPERIENCE DESCRIPTION:

The poisoning caused distress, loss of hearing, loss of motor skills and eventually I slipped into blackness. I immediately descended as if in a speeding elevator car. My only sensation was that of being taken downward in total darkness, total silence. When the descent ended I was in the deepest, darkest void I had ever experienced. Suddenly everything became clear to me. I WAS DEAD. I HAD BEEN CREATED BY GOD. GOD WAS A REALITY BUT I WAS NOT WITH HIM. As it turned out, he was with me but I did not know that yet. I tried to see but could not. I began to hear noise and what I heard was extremely distressing and eventually unbearable. As the noise grew in intensity, I realized it was voices, the countless voices of many, many souls, saying nothing, only weeping and wailing. It was the most anguished, pathetic sound I had ever heard. With every passing moment it grew until I imagined their numbers were in the millions. It was unbearable. I had to get out of this place. But how? I had no body and no voice. Finally, somewhere deep down in my spirit I screamed as hard as I could. I heard my own voice echoing on and on, GOD, HELP ME. The next thing that happened was a gigantic hand came down and moved under me and lifted me out of that abyss.

I was then taken up and up. The anguished voices faded and all was quiet. I saw again and realized I was passing up away from the Earth. In moments I had arrived at a certain destination and was confused. I was concerned about what had happened to me, that is, what had happened to my body. I found myself facing a group of people that I felt that I knew somehow. It seemed I had known them from a very long time ago. I knew they knew who I was. It seemed they loved me very much and were extremely happy to see me. I couldn't make out their faces but I was sure I had known them and loved them somewhere, sometime. One of them seemed to be my grandmother but try as I might I could not make out her face. I kept asking them, "What about Cathy?" I was so concerned about what had happened to me. The others told me not to worry about her (my body, my former self). They told me I was there with them and that was all that mattered.

They told me I had to talk to Him and pointed to a man who was off in the distance. I was immediately in His presence and we talked at length. I couldn't hear His voice but His thoughts instantly transferred to my consciousness and mine to His. I remember asking Him how I came to be here. He told me that He had created me, that it was His desire for me to be there with Him. I told Him this place was far too wonderful & I knew I had not done anything in my life to deserve being there in that beautiful place with Him. Once again, He told me that He had created my spirit in the beginning and had always longed for me to be there with Him! I insisted to Him that I was undeserving of His love & that I didn't think I should be there. He began answering questions for me. He made me understand that He created me and that He loved me so  very much. His spirit passed through my spirit with His Incredible love. I came to realize that the love I had just experienced from my Creator was unlike any love I had ever known on Earth, even that of my grandmother who loved me dearly. Her love could not compare with the love this Father of mine had just revealed to me.

I knew that He had the answers to all questions so I began to ask Him things I had wondered about the most. Why is there evil? His reply, because there is good. I asked how anyone, being what they are, be permitted to exist in this home of God. He made me understand that He knew everything about me, that I was who I was because He Himself had designed me to be exactly, precisely who I was and that whatever I was I was still His creation, His child and He loved me so very much. He asked me if I was now aware that I was dead. I said, "Well, yes. I guess I know that I'm dead." I asked Him, "Please tell me. When we, your children, come into existence, do we live just one time or do we live over and over?" He said it's like this... He took me to the entrance of a hall. We stood and looked down this long hall and there were millions and millions of doorways leading off this hall. He made me aware that there were many choices available to me and that that choice was the very answer to the question I had asked. The choice was up to ME. He made me understand that I could choose to stay where I was, that I could choose to walk down that hall and pick a door. He made me aware that picking a door would be my exit out of heaven and I would be born again out of the womb of some woman somewhere on Earth. I asked Him, "But how do I know what door to pick?" His reply was merely that the door that I picked is my choice. He could not reveal what that life would be like. It would be a mystery.

I asked Him, "Do we HAVE to pick another door and live over and over?" That in itself would be hell to me because what I had experienced, in large part, was very sad and distressful. He told me some people choose to go back again and again. He doesn't want them to. He wants them to stay with Him but He understands my feelings. He explained that when we choose to leave Him He removes all memories of previous lives because He doesn't want us distressed. He means for life to be a good thing for all of us. He then reiterated all my choices and again infused me with His love. He then asked, "Now, why would you want to leave me?" I don't remember responding. He asked, "Now, how do you feel about being dead?" I said that it really didn't bother me that much but that my only regret was that I hadn't had the chance to say good-bye to my parents.

The very next thing that I became aware of, amazingly, remarkably, astoundingly, was that once again I was in my old body without realizing I had made my choice. I chose to leave my all-loving, all-accepting heavenly Father in order to come back and say good-bye to my parents. My God, what had I given up? I became so horrified and distressed and depressed beyond words. But here I was again back in this world. I CHOSE the life I mapped out for myself. It's exactly what I got, to say good-bye to my parents. And so the story goes. My Dad died four years later. I'm still saying good-bye to my Mom.

Was the kind of experience difficult to express in words? No      

At the time of this experience, was there an associated life threatening event?          Yes     As stated previously, I was the victim of a poisoning. I was given a soft drink laced with strychnine.

At what time during the experience were you at your highest level of consciousness and alertness?    Immediately after I left my body and until I returned, I was very much alert and aware that I had left my physical body, that it had ceased functioning and that I was on a new level of existence.

How did your highest level of consciousness and alertness during the experience compare to your normal every day consciousness and alertness?    More consciousness and alertness than normal

If your highest level of consciousness and alertness during the experience was different from your normal every day consciousness and alertness, please explain:            Immediately after I left my body and until I returned, I was very much alert and aware that I had left my physical body, that it had ceased functioning and that I was on a new level of existence.

Did your vision differ in any way from your normal, everyday vision (in any aspect, such as clarity, field of vision, colors, brightness, depth perception degree of solidness/transparency of objects, etc.)?  Uncertain      I initially perceived only total darkness. After being taken up into what I would perceive as the heavens, I became aware of all the people who were there immediately to greet me. There was nothing else at that moment that I was permitted to see. But I definitely felt that there was so much more that was not being shown to me.

Did your hearing differ in any way from your normal, everyday hearing (in any aspect, such as clarity, ability to recognize source of sound, pitch, loudness, etc.)?
            Yes     As I progressed through the process of dying I lost my hearing at some point. However, at my first after death destination I had only my sense of hearing.

Did you experience a separation of your consciousness from your body?     Yes

What emotions did you feel during the experience?            First, fear and dread. I felt alone and lost. When I cried out for help I was lifted to a higher place. I experienced the feeling of overwhelming love and acceptance.

Did you pass into or through a tunnel or enclosure?          Yes     First travelled downward as in an invisible elevator. Was later lifted into space by a giant hand.

Did you see a light?           No      

Did you meet or see any other beings?           Yes     In the downward level I heard the wailing of countless souls. In the upper level I met faceless beings that I knew that I knew. I spoke to some and they directed me to one who I spoke with at length.

Did you experience a review of past events in your life?    No      

Did you observe or hear anything regarding people or events during your experience that could be verified later?          No      

Did you see or visit any beautiful or otherwise distinctive locations, levels or dimensions?            Yes     As stated, I first experienced a dark abyss where only sound could be discerned. After being lifted out of this I experienced a location that was without scenery. It was a dimension-less place populated with others. These other, familiar-feeling individuals greeted and spoke with me. I felt as though they expected me.

Did you have any sense of altered space or time?   Yes     It was timeless and without distraction. It was a huge open area.

Did you have a sense of knowing special knowledge, universal order and/or purpose?     Yes     I described this in the story of my experience. It came with the conversation I had with the One.

Did you reach a boundary or limiting physical structure? No      

Did you become aware of future events?       No           

Did you have any psychic, paranormal or other special gifts following the experience you did not have prior to the experience?     Yes     I have had numerous experiences of sensitivity to the deaths of others. I have gotten signals, heard names repeatedly, sensed the occurrence of deaths of others (plane crashes, boats sinking, accidents, abductions, etc.) In most cases, I didn't even know these people. I would hesitate to call it a gift. I has been more on the order of a curse as I am always the helpless by-stander.

Have you shared this experience with others?         Yes     About three years later, my father was dying of cancer and he asked me what I thought happened after life. I shared the experience with him. He was amazed by the story and told me that if he was able, he would try to contact me. I sometimes feel that he has. Years later, around the late 80's, I met a couple who hosted a "Friends of IANDS" meeting and was persuaded to share my story. They told me that I was one of two out of about a thousand interviewed, that they were aware of, that had a negative experience, that is travelling into what I can only call Hell. There have also been a few occasions, in the course of my nursing career, where I felt compelled to share my story with a terminally ill patient. I have also discussed it with various family members.

Did you have any knowledge of near death experience (NDE) prior to your experience?    No      

How did you view the reality of your experience shortly (days to weeks) after it happened:            Experience was definitely real    It has always been real. It was too profound to diminish in my memory of it.

Were there one or several parts of the experience especially meaningful or significant to you?            The  most significant part of the whole experience was that immediately after losing consciousness, I was CERTAIN of my own death and I was CERTAIN of the existence of God and my absence from Him. The conversation with the One is still with me and the information that He gave me is indisputable and is a part of me.

How do you currently view the reality of your experience:            Experience was definitely real            Time does not change the truth.

Have your relationships changed specifically as a result of your experience?           Yes     I ultimately fled from the abuser. I related differently to my parents. For the longest time following I felt incredible sadness for everyone because they didn't know what I knew.

Have your religious beliefs/practices changed specifically as a result of your experience?            Yes     It made me realize my spiritual core. I had no beliefs prior to this. I had only contempt for God up to this time because of the death of my grandmother.

Following the experience, have you had any other events in your life, medications or substances which reproduced any part of the experience?         No      

Is there anything else you would like to add concerning the experience?        For some reason, I now feel strongly inclined to share this experience on a wider scale. It's the same intuitive feeling that I have had concerning others' deaths

Did the questions asked and information you provided so far accurately and comprehensively describe your experience?         Uncertain      There is no way to accurately and comprehensively describe this event. The questionnaire was very well prepared and helped me to look at the experience from different angles. I've tried to be thorough but feel I have left a lot unsaid.